Hey Buenos, I've been in a musical rut lately and I'm embarrassed to say who's been plaguing my playlists but I'll just say that I've taken Michael Jackson's death about as far as I can go. Between that and Justin Timberlake, I need to come up with something else. What do you listen to, Buenos?
Mostly I'm stuck listeni
Hi Buenos! Long time reader, first time questioner. I recently lost a loved one after a long battle with leukemia. They fought very hard for a very long time and unfortunately the disease took its course. In passing, however, it was revealed to my brother and I that our deceased friend had very deep pockets and he lef
Dear Buenos, I've been working a dead-end job for years at the convenience store down the road from my house and I'm really thinking about quitting. I don't have any savings and yet I find myself dreading every day. I'mincreasingly depending on alcohol and drugs to get me through the evenings. I'm growing a gut and loosing my se
Hi Buenos, I have two questions for you. 1) My hair looks best spiky, but no guys are wearing spiky hair anymore. (Well, except for Chelsea gays, but I am much more interesting than them.) What are the hip new hairstyles for men this summer? 2) How many times should I leave voice-mails on a for
Buenos, do you have any thoughts on the current Supreme Court Nominee, Judge Sonia Sotomayor? I've heard a great deal about "identity politics" and how she's a "reverse racist" and stuff like that but I don't know that much about her. I'd love to hear your even-tempered opinion on the subject, especially since you are a
Hi there Buenos, how you doing? Listen, I'm working my ass off haulin' who-knows-what all over the country. I do pretty good too, good enough to send a little something back to my baby's mom every month or so. I even got me one of them IRAs or something and of course with the economy and everyth
Hey Buenos, I've got a pretty serious problem. I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. It's driving me crazy and I can't stand the thought of her with another guy. The worst part is I'm not sure if she is or isn't. My buddy told me he saw her at this one bar sitting on another guy's lap and r
As you may have heard, there's all this talk in the news about Swine Flu and I'm nervous to eat anything pig-based. I already don't eat cow or any type of bird for fear of Mad Cow Disease or Avian Flu and now I'm gonna have to give up pork chops and bacon too? This isn't even to mention my depart
Dear Mr. Buenos, I live a blessed life in the little hamlet of Sioux City, Iowa with my wonderful wife and my two beautiful children. I have a decent job selling car insurance and a network of supportive friends who know me very well. Why would I have any reason to be depressed, right? Well even with all that my Father God has given me I still have found myself feeling the terrible weight of depression for weeks now. I've been having trouble sleeping, thinking about the drudgery of my existence. I've been loosing weight at an alarming speed and just recently I wasn't able to make love to my wife. It hurt her feelings terribly and I'm afraid my depression might become contagious to her if I can't give her the love and support that she needs. Why would God put me through this? I have to confess that I question His existence now that I'm in this terrible funk. Do you have any words of support for people out there having their faith questioned? - Downer Steve
Come on, Eldrick.