• Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosheadshot01.jpgI've been living in the Northwest for about 6 months now, and gone on a handful of what I thought were dates with who I thought were fine gentlemen.  In more than one instance, however, I found out that they were dating other people at the same time!  How do I avoid these flighty polyamorists?

  • Ask Mr Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosheadshot01.jpgHi Buenos, I have two questions for you.  1) My hair looks best spiky, but no guys are wearing spiky hair anymore.  (Well, except for Chelsea gays, but I am much more interesting than them.)  What are the hip new hairstyles for men this summer?  2) How many times should I leave voice-mails on a for

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    Dear Buenos, I've read all your columns and they've really helped me out so first and foremost, thank you. My question for you is this: what gives your life meaning? Most humans write out of a sense of ego? Is this true for you as well? - Bored in Boca Raton

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    Dear Buenos, I just read that stretching too much before exercising might be a bad thing. Who are we supposed to trust when there's so much conflicting advice out there? I've been told my whole life, stretch before you run. - Lacy of Laredo

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosheadshot01.jpgHey Buenos, I've got a pretty serious problem.  I think my girlfriend is cheating on me.  It's driving me crazy and I can't stand the thought of her with another guy.  The worst part is I'm not sure if she is or isn't.  My buddy told me he saw her at this one bar sitting on another guy's lap and r

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosheadshot01.jpgHello Buenos, My roommate is a disgusting pig. She lets her dirty dishes pile up for weeks, lets her food go moldy in the fridge, gets hair dye stains all over the bathroom, and leaves her dirty clothes scattered about the apartment, among other things.

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosHey Buenos,  I've been in a musical rut lately and I'm embarrassed to say who's been plaguing my playlists but I'll just say that I've taken Michael Jackson's death about as far as I can go.  Between that and Justin Timberlake, I need to come up with something else.  What do you listen to, Buenos?

    Mostly I'm stuck listeni

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    Buenos is back to help out a young person in need of some work place advice.

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosDear Mr. Buenos, I live a blessed life in the little hamlet of Sioux City, Iowa with my wonderful wife and my two beautiful children.  I have a decent job selling car insurance and a network of supportive friends who know me very well.  Why would I have any reason to be depressed, right?  Well even with all that my Father God has given me I still have found myself feeling the terrible weight of depression for weeks now.  I've been having trouble sleeping, thinking about the drudgery of my existence.  I've been loosing weight at an alarming speed and just recently I wasn't able to make love to my wife.  It hurt her feelings terribly and I'm afraid my depression might become contagious to her if I can't give her the love and support that she needs.  Why would God put me through this?  I have to confess that I question His existence now that I'm in this terrible funk.  Do you have any words of support for people out there having their faith questioned? - Downer Steve

  • Ask Mr. Manners, with Buenos the Cat

    buenosheadshot01.jpgBuenos, do you have any thoughts on the current Supreme Court Nominee, Judge Sonia Sotomayor?  I've heard a great deal about "identity politics" and how she's a "reverse racist" and stuff like that but I don't know that much about her.  I'd love to hear your even-tempered opinion on the subject, especially since you are a

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